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birbmachinee · 11 months ago

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MY GIRL ALYX!!! SHE EXISTS!!! SHES TAKING THE FATTEST RIP IN THE WORLD I LOVE HER!!!!

this is genuinely the fastest I’ve ever finished something that trailer did things to my brain man

#hlvrai #half life #hl2 #alyx vance #bbvrai #she’s my beautiful little girl in an ai world #Favorite woman #Smoking a FAT doobie

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1000dactyls · 4 months ago

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a random assortment of httyd drawings i’ve collected in the past couple of weeks…. B) maggotfig is my httyd oc who is a very good viking boy who dreams of not very viking appropriate things, like what the best kenning for a zippleback’s teeth might be. his right eye is covered because it causes him a lot of pain and is hyper-sensitive when exposed to light, leading to a lot of migraines. it’s a good thing gormworm (or “gormy”) guards his blindspot…

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lovelydrusilla · 6 months ago

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my girllll 💗💗💗

#penelope apologist first human being second #she has never done anything wrong in her life #who can fault a woman who's been ridiculed her entire life for taking matters into her own hands #so sorry but the bridgerton brainrot is real #she is important to meee #fat icon #i actually am like other girls #bridgerton #penelope featherington #colin bridgerton #colin x penelope #bridgertonedit #perioddramaedit #polin #nicola coughlan

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bitchfitch · 2 months ago

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I've started playing Potion Permit, and so far it's one of my favorite games I've messed around with, but the most big brained move the devs made was giving you a dog on day 1, and then making that dog able to track NPCs and lead you directly to them no matter where they are in the town.

#im still early game but i like the play and the writing is passable #like #Theres a flatness #the characters Are distinct but theyre mostly just their jobs #with only a few who stand out and have like. something to really grab onto #Like rue? rues entire deal is little girl you can date. Nothing else behind those eyes. She has nothing better to talk to you about #than the fact her favorite color is red #Sorcelia? Sorcelia is a goth nun who loves singing and teaches one of the village children #Reynerd? sure is a guy #got nothing else to say about him. hes just a Guy™. Victor? Has ghost friends and loves bugs and cares deeply about the cemetery #he tends to. At the moment it feels like they're trying to imply there aren't actually ghosts. and hes just talking to himself/#insisting his imaginary friends are real people #and so far? The games been cool about it. Victor's a member of his community and his eccentricities are accepted and not ridiculed #all four characters ive mentioned are romance candidates. but its just as hit or miss with the regular towns folk #Opalheart is an older woman and a world renowned blacksmith who only takes jobs if they will do Good. regardless of whether or not they #pay well. She declines to make a dagger for a rich man but makes a helmet for a childs father bc the girl asked #and olive is here #anyways you can be best friends with a cat (shes just a regular cat) and i appreciate that #idk im putting it above sun haven in my ranking of life sim games #purely because there are older romance candidates.#no fat romance candidates. but sun haven doesn't have thise either.#and sdv has neither fat or old candidates Nor can you fuck a cat boy. it goes at the bottom.#gameplay wise sunhaven is at the bottom then sdv then potion permit at the top. sunhaven has the Most™ but having #a lot of crap doesn't mean its fun and it ends up making half the game feel really incomplete #idk. Sdv is a game you should've started playing a year ago. sun haven is a game that perpetually needs another year worth of updates #before id say its worth it bc the devs keep pushing content ™ updates instead of quality of life or polish so what is there is uh #Bad. plentiful. and a large portion is good #but a Lot is just bad.#its insincere and cant take itself seriously it gives you (the right dialogue option) an (the shit joke option) which is worse than just #i ram out of space. tldr. potion permit is good Now. sdv Was good. sun haven Might be great Eventually

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musical-chick-13 · 1 year ago

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Regarding the whole "Fandom Is An Escape, so why should I have to care this much about misogyny/racism/ableism/transphobia/etc." thing. Idk about the rest of you, but it gets kind of hard for me to "escape" when I keep seeing people say the same vile things about characters who share aspects of my identity that I hear all the time in real life.

#gotta say: it doesn't make me feel any better getting ignored/disparaged on account of my gender irl and then seeing every fictional woman #also get ignored/disparaged when there is no material difference between her and popular male characters other than her gender #how do I escape from irl misogyny if y'all keep willfully ignoring and flinging gendered insults at 99% (<-lowball estimate) of #female characters? how do I put aside the ableism I face in real life when y'all discuss disabled/mentally ill characters in the most #absolutely out-of-pocket way? how do I forget about biphobia when the 'arguments' you make 'for fun' about bisexual characters #in fiction sound EXACTLY the same as the things people say about my bisexuality outside of the internet/fan culture?#and then obviously this gets compounded if you are trying to even simply EXIST in fandom as a poc or a trans person or an intersection of #any or all these varying identities/life experiences #like yes caring about fictional characters is not the same as caring about real people OBVIOUSLY I can't BELIEVE I have to keep clarifying #that. and at the same time!! because multiple things can be true at the same time!!!! engaging in behavior that enforces pre-ingrained #societal biases and prejudices!!!!!!!! does not help dismantle those biases and prejudices!!!!!!!!!!!!!! in a real-world way that DOES #involve caring about actual people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#it's also. interesting. when people go on & on about how some newest show about thin cis white (male) gays is So Important & Revolutionary #So We Must Do Everything To Keep It Relevant And Visible and then act this way about women/poc/trans people/disabled people/fat people #in media. so like. you DO agree that seeing a variety of life experiences represented in fiction is beneficial. you DO believe in the #value of depicting marginalized people. interesting that that only seems to apply to a VERY narrow and specific category of marginalization #(ugh remember when I talked about this and someone called me a straight person good times)

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plaquerat · 5 months ago

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uuuughhhh i wanna draw progression like cardinal -> pre surgery -> post surgery -> imperator ii but i feel like if i do that im gonna get some busy body screaming at me for drawing copia fat and generally portraying weight gain

#gnashing of teeth #my hc is that shes putting on weight bc hrt + stress + general life stuff #and i think she looks good like that 🙄#you ever see a fat woman in a formal suit? good lord its something

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bmpmp3 · 10 months ago

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yumeko..........................................................i gotta catch up on this manga

#art #traditional art #watercolour #fanart #debu to love to ayamachi to!#genuinely really refreshing having a fat woman main character whos like in the middle of a attempted murder mystery story.#ignoring the horrors of her past <3 too busy being a cutie pie who everyone loves #i forgot the english name. my plus size misadventures in love i think? its been a minute #also realized i need to draw more fat characters. im fat myself but i only really know how to like #draw my own fat body type (no hips but a lot of upper stuff going on) without a direct reference orz #(obvs with a direct reference i can draw anyone LOL i miss life model drawing its fun!!) which is a silly roadblock to have #theres so many types of bodies out there. i still need to practice with yumeko here i keep making her cheeks and neck a BIT too small #i will keep at it yumeko. for you. i will capture ur bewitching beauty #but yeah. grabs internalized fatphobia by the throat and throws it out the window. I SHALL PRACTICEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE #if a bunch of my ocs randomly gain weight in the next few weeks u know why LOL

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thejoysofdessert · 2 months ago

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As a kid, I didn't get to experiment with my hair, clothes, identity, pronouns, sexuality, drugs, sex, risky experiences, adventures,

I began gender and sexuality stuff in my late 20s. I will never say it's too late to transition cuz it's not. However, as a crippled disabled 30+ trans woman, it feels too late to take risks and try new experiences and take risks with my clothing, sexuality, hair styles, etc.

I am enraged that my childhood and adolescence was taken from me and that I missed the "safe" window to try adventurous things.

#chronic illness #actually disabled #I'm really hoping one person will tell me it's not too late. i just need the permission.#chronic pain #fibromyalgia #screaming into the void #diary of this cripple #a day in the life of a six foot five fat disabled trans woman #this pain cannot go away and i will forever be emo about it despite never getting an emo phase #this time of year is really rough for me #mobility aid user

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spitblaze · 1 year ago

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Transphobes like...realize that kids still have free will and can recognize things when they're being 'socalized' by their agab, right? I was taught growing up to have a lot of 'girl' friends and to make those friends by talking about my feelings or w/e rather than my interests. I was taught that I was a woman, and that women act a certain way, dress a certain way, look a certain way. And I fuckin' tried, and I fuckin' hated it! I had the 'female socialization' that taught me my job was a caretaker and being pretty, and I fought against it. The minute puberty hit I started wearing jeans and t-shirts every day, my mom FOUGHT to get me to wear a dress to formal occasions, 90% of my friends were dudes who I befriended by talking about my decidedly un-feminine interests with. I did not like what I was being taught to be, and it wasn't something that being butch or a 'tomboy' could solve. I'm so, so much happier and emotionally stable with testosterone in my body and a beard on my face and hair covering my body than I ever was when I was trying to be a 'tomboy' or that I had any interest in performing femininity.

#spitblaze says things #i am more comfortable in my body now than I have ever been in my entire goddamn life #i could NOT have done this if i had just said 'i guess im a butch woman'#i would STILL be picking apart every flaw in my body in the mirror #i would STILL be watching people tell me im super hot and have zero idea what they were seeing in me #and now im a gay bear! i get way less compliments but i look in the mirror and go 'god damn i look good' and the fact that *I* like it #makes up for the fact that 'fat dude' is a less desired body type on average #tldr i enjoy presenting as a man and being perceived as a man rather than my agab and i heard somewhere that thats not very cis of me

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eywaseclipse · 3 months ago

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I just know Neytiri gets DYYOOOOWWWNN with a quinoa salad. Fuck it up sis. She don’t mess around. That and a bean salad. Those kids got healthy gut microbiomes.

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rubenesque-as-fuck · 1 month ago

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Brainstorming dumb costume ideas for a small Halloween party that I'm going to in a couple of weeks 🤔

Snow White Dress + Corvid mask = Crow White? Is that anything??

#costume ideas #brainstorming #snow white dress plus corvid mask equals crow white?#i dunno I'm just trying to think of things that will be ok to wear all night at an event where I only know a couple of people well #and i will be the only single person there #and also the only fat woman/woman adjacent person there #so not really a comfortable space to wear something too slutty that's not the vibe #so that rules out like 90% of my costume closet 😂#and ideally I'd like to put something together with stuff i already have rather than buy even MORE costume stuff #crow white #life of faye

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mostlikelyshutup · 9 months ago

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the worst part about being a fat woman with an eating disorder is that if you offered a chance for me to be thin, i know i would take it in a second, and i also know that it comes both from a place of insecurity and ed thinking but also very real oppression as a fat woman

#its so frustrating to know #that although it does not make me a good or bad person and it doesnt make my life somehow so much better to be thin #but that as a fat woman my life is made exponentially harder because i am fat #like there is no moral or personal reasons to want to be thin and societally acceptable looking #but there is social reasons that i would love to be thin #social and economic tbh because thin people get all the good clothes #so its like yeah do i think being thin would improve my life? kindve #because i dont think i would be much happier than rn #but i do think it would be easier to live in the day to day #the things i consider now because i am fat in a world that makes thin people the better people???#my life would be so much easier without having to make those considerations #anyway lmao #ed vent #i guess #fat vent #fat #k mumbles #tell me if i need to tag anything else tbh #ed mention

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ask-artsy-oncie · 1 year ago

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I was reminded of the time that tumblr tried to make "monster high but with tumblr sexymen", and one of the characters was (obviously) the daughter of the once-ler.

And the funny thing to me about that is that in the canon of the illumination lorax movie, the once-ler is heavily implied to have an estranged daughter. I don't know all the sexymen off the top of my head but I think he might've been one of the only ones referenced in that trend who actually had a daughter in his own canon.

#Stupid shit #I'm gonna provide context in the tags for those who want it but I also like the idea of just leaving it there #Okay so for anyone who wasn't in the fandom: when people say the movie gave us no one to ship the Once-ler with they were LYING #The movie gave the Once-ler no MALE characters to ship him with - thus Oncest started #However - the second most popular Once-ler ship was between him and Norma #(Who - if you haven't seen the movie in a while - is Ted's grandmother who tells him about the Once-ler and how to find and barter with him #This was mostly just a ship born from theory and logical deduction - why does Norma know so much personal info about the Once-ler?#Were they perhaps friends? Lovers? In the past? Where was she in his life and at what points? When did she leave?#And people started making theories and shipping the two - primarily as past lovers. But there was art of them reconnecting for sure.#HOWEVER - this also meant that there was a theory that Ted's mom was also related to the Once-ler #As in - hmm this daughter of a very short fat woman is oddly tall and thin... hmmm #And so the running theory wasn't just that the Once-ler and Norma were once lovers - but that the Once-ler was also Ted's grandfather #Who was entirely estranged from the family due to self-exile and possibly bad blood between him and Norma at some point during his downfall #(I actually do think that it's funny that the Once-ler's youngest design purposefully draws some comparison between him & the Truffula tree #Only for the character theorized to be his daughter to also evoke some Truffula tree imagery in her design)#ANYWAYS that was a theory for about as long as the movie was out - Normaler (the ship) was a thing for as long (if not longer) than Oncest #And was present enough that there were like actively flame wars between the two groups of shippers #Like literally I directly remember this it's so insane to me that no one ever brings this up when talking about the shipping in this fandom #BUT THEN!!!! The Lorax comes out on DVD. The fandom rejoices and everyone takes pictures of themselves buying or holding the DVD.#If you dig far enough and I haven't deleted it yet you might find mine. I was in full cosplay wig and all.#Anyways - we have the movie in HD now!! No more cam rip footage!!!#And now we can take high-quality screenshots that truly show off the detail of the backgrounds in this movie #(The fandom loved to gush about how detailed and well-designed the movie's backgrounds were - that wasn't just a throwaway transition)#Only - what's this?????#In one of the shots at the end of the movie - we very briefly get to see the inside of the Once-ler's lurkim - like the living room #AND THERE - IN THE BACKGROUND - ONLY VISIBLE IN HD #IS A PHOTOGRAPH OF A WOMAN WHO SUSPICIOUSLY HAS THE EXACT SAME SILHOUETTE AS NORMA #Normaler fans rejoice and 'Grandpa Once-ler' theory is accepted into canon (or - more accurately - 'implied canon') by most fans #So yes - for those keeping track - while the evidence wasn't as concrete as it could have been #The Once-ler is implied to have been the father of Ted's mom in the movie

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beetlebite · 1 month ago

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When will my little pony fans be ready to talk about how misogyny shaped spoiled rich's entire character

#why utilize the one established parent in diamond tiaras life whose single definining trait (having fat stacks) is already unsympathetic #when you can just make up a vapid evil bitch woman to make solely responsible for her childs bad behavior 🤪#and dont even get me started on diamond tiaras entire bullshit one episode redemption

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thestalwartheart · 9 months ago

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Back into the Slow Horses books after a rogue bit of fatphobia in Dead Lions had me taking a break, and I'm so glad I'm back because I've just read the scene in Real TIgers where Shirley backhands Roddy. My QUEEN 👑

#slow horses #feeling the need to justify why i hated the fatphobic scene so much when i actually don't owe anyone a reason!#anyway it was the scene where louisa simply witnesses a fat woman living her life and decides to say/think mean things about her #mick herron was extremely uncool for that imo

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bmpmp3 · 7 months ago

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dysgraphic artiƨts risɘ UP!!!!!

#raise your pencils!!!! and erasers. to fix the backwards letters 😔#sorry still thinking about my weirdness with my art professors. yknow a lot of em have been really pushing us as #students to make our personal identities a major part of like our 'brand' as artists #which. well from an art history major perspective thats a very contentious and nuanced topic. i love a lot of artists who live this way #and i think its great seeing my peers who focus on identity thrive. but also as an fine arts major (double major fool LOL)#i keep getting pushed by teachers into like. specific '____ artist' identities???#specificaly woman artist. which is a little bizarre because im a bit fat and a bit gnc so im generally like. ungendered? in day-to-day life #(which doesnt actually matter to me directly that much honestly LOL people tend to view me as like. buddy? buddy or pal.)#(not man. not woman. not anything human. sometimes i remind people of a beloved dog. which. hkdsahjk thats its own can of worms)#(a can of worms that also doesnt matter much to me directly because im a wannabe furry who chose to be the dog when playing house as a kid)#(LOL so um. well. theres that) but yeah i dunno i dont really consider myself a woman artist. its been. shockingly (and sometimes luckily?)#irrelevant to most of my life and experiences and art (although dont get me wrong misogyny is very real and very present) so i dont #have a whole lot to say about it from an art perspective. you could also call me all kinds of things. a queer artist. a mixed race artist #again technically correct. some aspects more visible in my work than others. but also very technical. i focus on race a lot in in my #art historical work but i dunno how much my drawings have to say. except that i keep making too many mixed ocs LOL #i dunno i just think my professors gotta focus that energy away from tokenizing me and over to supporting like actual #capital W Woman artists capital Q Queer artists capital A Artists of Colour who are doing far more interesting things than I #far more thought out and engaged in these topics directly. i just kind of stumble into my art blindly and confused <3 #sorry that was a long tangent WHAT IM SAYING Is despite all that: i do consider myself a capital D Dysgraphic artist #i think its an unmovable constant of my art and the way i draw and the way my hands move. the untrained eye doesnt seem to be as aware #of it directly. but those who are familiar can probably see it. the dysgraphia LOL if not just from whenever i write a letter or number #half of them are busted and frantically fixed HDKJSDJDS but its in all my art. if u can see it <3 ive been trying to embrace it #dygraphic artists raise your pencils indeed!! and throw away the eraser!!! make the legibility of your words everyone elses problem!!!#what does that say? what is that sketch? none of my business! none of your business!! its the business of my hand and the pencil alone #motor skill and spatial issues take the wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeel

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